The Clarity Key Model is a framework of the dynamics of the mind
Hidden beliefs set up compulsive behaviors and emotional reactions that control your relationships, perceptions of the world, and even how you feel about yourself.
Once you become aware of those beliefs, they immediately become CONSCIOUS and subject to your logical evaluation about whether you keep them or not.
Your compulsions driven by previously unconscious assumptions dissolve immediately. You take charge of the way you experience everything and everyone, including yourself.
Two parts of your mind
We all have two mind parts, conscious and unconscious.
The first part we know well, your conscious mind. It’s where we spend our time, understanding, making decisions, and learning about the world. Most of us assume this is the only part.
However, sometimes you do things you know you don’t want to do.
You can’t seem to change patterns and behaviors that you know you want to change.
Or you feel incredibly frustrated, confused, and powerless…
Those experiences and feelings are artifacts from your childhood. They’re assumptions that are buried deep in your unconscious mind.
Your unconscious mind is the source of your self-sabotage
When you have expectations like:
He’s/she’s too good for me…
I'm not good enough…
They will leave me…
I always come last
I'm always alone…
Then your self-sabotaging patterns make those expectations come true, and you find yourself:
In destructive relationships…
Quitting when you near your goals…
Blaming and condemning…
Feeling painful emotions like fear, anger, anxiety, guilt, shame, depression…
Your unconscious mind is full of rules that operate as rigid commandments
You formed these rules in early childhood, using your toddler-level thinking skills. Then you stored them in your unconscious mind where they are used, without your knowledge, as if they are absolute truths.
You experience intense anxiety, fear, and guilt if these toddler commandments are violated or even threatened.
You have no idea where this anxiety comes from because you cannot 'see' the rules hidden away in your mind.
In short, your toddler perceptions of the world are controlling your life!
How to uncover the toddler laws controlling you
The old way
The current method used to uncover unconscious beliefs began with Sigmund Freud.
It is the long, expensive, and unpredictable process of psychoanalysis or psychotherapy.
That process requires a large investment of time and money, yet individual results vary drastically.
For some people, it works wonders. For others, it is not very successful.
The monetary expense puts it out of reach for many people.
The time required puts it out of reach for many others.
Some people are not willing to risk the time and money without knowing it will help them.
In short, we need something more accessible, effective, and efficient to bring our unconscious toddler 'rules' to our conscious awareness, where we can make adult changes.
The new way
Now, there is another choice!
“Over more than twenty years of intense study and clinical practice, I have developed a very different, faster and more effective tool to 'see' into the unconscious mind, called The Clarity Key Model©.” — Dr. Anne
Using this model, you can derive the unconscious 'rules' governing your expectations, emotions, relationships, patterns, and even your critical inner voice. You simply identify several aspects of what is happening in your current situations and putting them in the model.
This model is a simple tool built on the predictable ways in which unconscious 'rules' govern our lives.
The Clarity Key Model© provides a simple framework to analyze your life situations, so you understand clearly how your beliefs came to be and how those beliefs have built self-defeating patterns in your life.
AS SOON AS YOU SEE IT, IT STOPS WORKING AGAINST YOU.
Eliminate long term analysis
Once you learn the model, you can use it on your own, eliminating the need for lengthy, expensive therapy.
Even more importantly, you can tell if the model is working for you immediately.
When your conclusions using this model are correct, you KNOW the truth of the results because it explains your experiences in a whole new light and RESONATES throughout your being.
You experience a feeling of puzzle pieces suddenly falling into place, making sense of long-standing patterns from an entirely new perspective.
It is an exciting 'ah-ha' moment that will continue to create changes in your understanding of your life indefinitely, with no further effort on your part!
The good news is that once the unconscious rules are exposed, they become conscious so that you can use your adult experience to make rational changes in your life.
The simple 'exposure' of the unconscious rules causes the feelings and behaviors to change.
Just knowing that the rules are there will begin to change everything, even though nothing outside of you has changed at all.
You’ll feel the ultimate empowerment. Finally, and fully, you’ll realize you are no longer waiting for anyone else to change before you can be happy.
With the understanding you gain using The Clarity Key Model©, you’ll realize that some of the critical 'rules' governing your reactions are not visible to you.
Once you uncover those rules, you’ll no longer blame anyone else because you’ll understand precisely how and why your life situations had to be the way they were.
You’ll begin to have real compassion for yourself and others.
You’ll truly begin to understand that you are not the source of problems in anyone else's life, just as they are not the real source of your problems.
With the skills you gain from The Clarity Key Model©, you’ll shift your understanding of conflict, confrontation, and defensiveness.
Your fears of setting limits and asking for what you want will disappear.
You’ll be able to set boundaries because you deeply understand why boundaries are good for you and all your relationships.
You’ll no longer be a smoldering cauldron of helpless, powerless resentments.
Love and compatibility are the building blocks of relationships.
Love exists apart from behavior.
Compatibility is how easily we fit together based on our personal preferences.
As you learn to separate them, you’ll no longer believe your partner's different preferences mean anything about loving you.
Live with compassion for yourself and others
You’ll begin to understand the nature of perception and how that impacts how much you can know or control.
As you understand that expectations and attachment to outcomes create distress, you begin to shift your focus from outcomes to the process.
You’ll become more compassionate with yourself. You’ll understand that you have always done the best you knew to do at the time, which will allow you to be more compassionate with others too.
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